tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post2075938829967699916..comments2023-05-09T23:10:04.589+08:00Comments on Reintrospection: Thoughts and Reflections: Female Writers: To love or to hate?marzukihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05992749943748434474noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-54391554040104503762009-10-18T20:05:54.699+08:002009-10-18T20:05:54.699+08:00Hi Cairo,
Considering your circumstances based on...Hi Cairo,<br /><br />Considering your circumstances based on what i can gather, I think that im able to see where you're coming from. Am glad to know i came across as good ... although, i think there's lots of flaws underneath that im trying to work on. I can be an idiot some times too. haha!<br /><br />Most of your readers are receptive to your new approach. Some arent but i believe tt's normal - Im one of those that arent receptive to changes. But it's these changes that make us grow as individuals: both u as well as us readers.marzukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992749943748434474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-87159014109170062362009-10-18T19:34:28.582+08:002009-10-18T19:34:28.582+08:00Hey Fine Life Folk,
Nice food blog you have there...Hey Fine Life Folk,<br /><br />Nice food blog you have there. I believe it simply shows that we're beginning to change. Perhaps in time, we'll see more guys in the kitchen and let the ladies out working. Haha.marzukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992749943748434474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-72300187498909554642009-10-18T18:50:45.533+08:002009-10-18T18:50:45.533+08:00Wow, that comment made my day :)
I do have the (w...Wow, that comment made my day :)<br /><br />I do have the (wrong) tendency to view all men as "bad" or "sexist" when of course that isn't the case. It's always good to see men who aren't like that, since it completely disproves my stereotype.<br /><br />The day I present another approach to my readers is the day I know I've become a much better person. I'A that will happen!cairo, lusaka, amsterdamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955671720625835663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-18658386433563855842009-10-18T13:50:35.302+08:002009-10-18T13:50:35.302+08:00same thing why i'm blogging about food. why?same thing why i'm blogging about food. why?Fine Life Folkhttp://finelifeonabudget.weebly.com/blog.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-73075631891472396182009-10-18T10:57:23.529+08:002009-10-18T10:57:23.529+08:00Perhaps I'm doing everything I can to show you...Perhaps I'm doing everything I can to show you that not all guys are as bad as you think them to be. That by nature, guys are nice and understanding people. However, culture makes us the idiots that most of us are.<br /><br />Perhaps too, Im trying to counter the negativity and emotions that might affect your thoughts and writing with a dose of positivity and thoughts. You can only imagine how happy i was when u switched ur approach. <br /><br />I hope you can one day introduce to your readers a different perspective - and let them decide for themselves the better approach. Insyaallah. You have that ability to connect with people. <br /><br />Perhaps. (:marzukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992749943748434474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-22964084319928720582009-10-18T05:26:31.698+08:002009-10-18T05:26:31.698+08:00I think that's my favourite thing about you, t...I think that's my favourite thing about you, that you argue with me :) And very politely...it's great! I always look forward to your comments.cairo, lusaka, amsterdamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955671720625835663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-15052690673873552972009-10-18T03:21:04.159+08:002009-10-18T03:21:04.159+08:00Some feminists will argue that men cant be feminis...Some feminists will argue that men cant be feminist because they arent female. Male feminist? Giddy? Excited? Hahaha! U just made my day! <br /><br />But just so you know, this male feminist may not always agree with the things u raise and am never afraid to offer a different take - in as polite a manner as I can be, of course.marzukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992749943748434474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-78859840250395140642009-10-18T02:54:10.005+08:002009-10-18T02:54:10.005+08:00True, true! That's why when I meet guys who do...True, true! That's why when I meet guys who don't fit the above criteria, I get very giddy and excited. Nothing makes me happier than a male feminist!cairo, lusaka, amsterdamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955671720625835663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-3027087228536802172009-10-17T14:56:46.528+08:002009-10-17T14:56:46.528+08:00Haha! I had a feeling you would.
Not all guys fe...Haha! I had a feeling you would. <br /><br />Not all guys fear "the loss of power that we as males exercise over women". And I dun think that "our own sense of masculinity that is being threatened?" <br /><br />I guess it's all about balance.marzukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992749943748434474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-2176130713496082882009-10-17T05:17:10.107+08:002009-10-17T05:17:10.107+08:00I think it's a mix, but like you said, at the ...I think it's a mix, but like you said, at the beginning it was probably mostly nature whereas now it's mostly culture. <br /><br />"However, I'm of the view that if a lady thinks she's capable of moving mountains, why not? Why should one foolishly follow silly traditions and practices? Why restrict her to the kitchen?"<br /><br />Love this!cairo, lusaka, amsterdamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955671720625835663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-20190950655079427842009-10-16T21:50:18.700+08:002009-10-16T21:50:18.700+08:00that's O_o indeed.
Interesting though. This e...that's O_o indeed.<br /><br />Interesting though. This experiment of his (dun think it's scott money coz google gave me nothing) pretty much shows how we're born with certain traits. And I believe subsequently, one's experiences and circumstances will influence the person one will be in future.marzukihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05992749943748434474noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7877473564197200535.post-25570333615638122562009-10-14T22:37:56.840+08:002009-10-14T22:37:56.840+08:00it's probably a little of both. but i think na...it's probably a little of both. but i think nature has more to do with it also. there's an interesting study by scott money (i think thats his name) where he tried to successfully experiment w/ a group of twin boys. one raised as a boy and the other as a girl (he had a botched circumcision so his parents decided to castrate as a baby and raise him as a girl!)... this 'girl' twin was SO unlike a girl. rough and tumble always preferring boy toys etc. because he IS. he wasn't even transgendered.. just some kid who had an unfortunate circumstance, then have authorities before he could speak decide it was a good idea to raise him as a different gender O_ofloretahttp://floretacui.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.com